Musica Wolfsbane
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Posted: 04-27-2016 11:40 AM
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What do you guys think? What do you think it takes to truly obtain the love of your life? I know alot of experiences, even when being at a small age, but at the same time, I am still wondering more and more. Do you guys eexpect alot from your ideal mate, or do you think they expect alot out of you?
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Peaches
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Posted: 04-27-2016 22:54 PM
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Me personally just love the idea of starting as friends and it turning into something romantic. My mate is tough on the outside but always lets his guard down around me. I enjoy the openness and mutal understanding of each others internal feelings. Someone who can go through a rough patch with you and still keep you smiling I think is ideal. I personally think when in a relationship (Emotion wise) you can never ask for too much. I also think if a relationship is centered around the loving aspects vs the sexual then you would have a long happy future ahead of you with that person. (Sorry for rambling :P I just love topics like these!)
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Maddox
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Posted: 04-29-2016 09:58 AM
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Everyone sees perfection differently. There is no such thing as perfection. Perfection is an illusion. The flaws of the male or woman are what make them well them. The way I see it regardless of gender is:
A man must take care of his woman and a woman must take care of her man. No one is before the other. Its about team work.
No its not just a man and a woman. It can be any type of relationship.
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Kusafox
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Posted: 05-03-2016 11:26 AM
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I agree with Maddox, it is about teamwork and that there is no such thing as perfection. Talking about compatability and meahing though...personally I would say someone who can stand my idiocy yet still want to talk to me and atill enjoy my company and vice versa. Someone who is serious when needed yet a jokester when they can. Someone who can balance aexual talk with normal talk even be able to morph the two and be able to make puns out of them :P
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Amapellicius
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Posted: 05-12-2016 02:31 AM
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heh, well talking about perfection, even if it was a real thing, i wouldn't want it, perfection has hard limits and boundaries set on it, whereas imperfection can strive past those boundaries, so in my eyes a relationship is a lot like balancing, you find the person who seems to round you out, bring out the best in you, and you do the same for them. As for me? well... i just go with what i feel, i learn about the person and see what is open to me as far as a relationship goes
They say the mind bends and twists in order to deal with the horrors of life,
sometimes the mind bends so much it snaps in two.
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darkenedwolf
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Posted: 05-14-2016 13:13 PM
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12" junk, end of story! ha no... read on... :p
The perfect boyfriend. I'd think you'd find him in a reflection of yourself. Rather than focusing on different aspects of how he should be perfect put your energy into how you can be this way. Then, when you find someone who shares common similarities build on them. Share and invest time into them. Let yourself fall in love with countless things big and small. With enough enjoyable time together like this you will feel he coudln't be any more perfect "for you". Now with this endless list of things you've found about that special person you're probably going to someday look back and realize that the list of things you were looking for as "The perfect boyfriend" really didn't compare to who you've found because he is so much more than you could of ever imagined in any description.
Happy Hunting! :)
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